Every induvidual has an inborn attitude and stimuli towards every situation and people around him/her. Circumstances and psychology of the person play a key role in this aspect.
To consider in detail every induvidual has a different mindset that always rules his feelings towards other people and consequently his/her social relationships. To some love means to like others and some others express love as in the sense they like others. Some prefer to live with the ones they like but not love them. Some like to live with the loved ones as they like them.
Beating round the bush there are some others who like others to love them and live with them but they leave everything suddenly. This kind of attitude is nothing but the infatuation or attraction.
In a family if offsprings like each other and love each other affectionately they sacrifice things for each other - whether it be toys in childhood or money and materialistic things when they grow up. Once the blood relation exists none can deny their intimate love and care and this relationship of love exists till their last breath, though they may have some misunderstandings sometimes.
When two induviduals irrespective of family, caste, creed , sex, religion like each other it grows into friendship. Sacrifices and adjustments exist in friendship and friends may wish to live together or near by for the same moral and mental support throughout life. This friendship between opposite sex may turn into love and both may wish to share life and lead a happy family life.
On the negative side if the relations tend to break up due to misunderstandings obviously there is chance for rivalry or hatred. The place for love in this world tends to shrink. Every one try to take advantage of others and then leave may it be for money pleasure.
Whatever it is we have to inculcate that habit to like others at least if not to love and live with them. If we imbibe in our heart and soul that though we don't love other from bottom of heart at least considering the humanity we should not give place for any kind of hatred or rivalry to arise.
Then we can remind ourselves of Abdul Kalam's words in the European Union Congress " When there is virtuousness in heart, there is beauty in character. When there beauty in character, there is harmony in the home. When there is harmony in the home, there is order in the nation. When there is order in the nation, there is peace in the world."
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